How i spend my time.

When i go to a strip club, I go to have fun.

Sometimes, a lady I may already be friends with, will be there. I make sure to say hi with a wave if she is on stage or busy with a fellow customer. Then I start my routine, and it must be a pretty good one, because when I leave the Dancers are truly sad I'm leaving, but they are happy too. We have fun together.
Anyway, my routine.
i begin by getting tip money, usually from the bar. Next I go to a stage, have a seat, make eye contact with the dancer while giving her a grin. Most of the time this is first contact, with the dancers, exchanging names, and such. I like to sit through a complete rotation before asking, or should I say excepting a dance from a lady. This lets all the dancers working, a chance to see me and I them.
When i am sitting through the second rotation, I begin to ask for dances at this time. For me, getting the dance from a girl as she completes her stage set, I see this as a courtesy. figure that way she has time to freshen up, do the dance with me and have a minute to catch her breath before her next stage.
I am all about showing respect and courtesy to the girls. Like asking before doing anything. An example being. My hands, am i allowed to put them on her in any way shape or form. Asking if she would like to sit, then if you want another girl to join us, ask her if she minds. That sort of thing. well thats all for now I guess, just thought to share. OH, and It's really OK to look like you are having fun. Being the silent brooding type just makes you seem unapproachable.