2 types of Dancers

Hey guys, this blog is for those unfortunate souls who think that dancers are stuck up if they aren't talking to you. When to your untrained eye (who knows, it may just be your stupid) they are doing nothing, but drinking and talking with each other. The reason they are drinking and talking with each other, instead of you is a simple one. YOU have not ASKED to sit with them, or made any other attempt to get to know them. You have run into the ladies of the dancing world. This type of dancer, wants to be asked, to join you for what ever reason. See to them it is considered rude to ask each and every guy, "would you like a dance", or "can I sit with you". You might see the same dancer go right to a guy, just as they sit or have entered the club. In this case it is, because these guys are "regulars". Meaning they have come in at least once before a done that very important first step, TALKED to the girl. Once you are a regular, you will be greeted very warmly by the girls you have talked too. It's all about manners, and trying to please. Don't get me wrong. There is another type of dancer out there too. She is known as the "hustler", she will have regulars of her own, but has know qualms about usurping another girls, when that dancer is busy with another client. It can be a very cut-throat business. The lady will protect her clients, but the Hustler will stab the lady in the back with rumor, and guile. Both of them will give the client a show, but the lady tries not to put the client in the middle of a dispute between others she may have to work with. The Hustler will more than likely tell you a story to make herself look like a better buy, bringing you into a club matter. So "let the Buyer beware". If you are the shy client and you are affraid of asking the girl. Relax, just ask, truth to tell the ladies in the house are shy too. They may dance without clothes, but truth to tell they are as shy as you. You will be able to relate to them alot more easily. So have fun, show respect, and be a "regular" guy. Manners go along way. :-D