Gentlemen's club vs Strip clubs

Hope this doesn't come off as lecture, or a I'm better than you thing. Just trying to show those of you who read this, the difference between "Gentlemen's", and "Strip" clubs, from my point of view. Having just read a blog. of a friend of mine in the business, explaining that there are different rules to the different clubs on how the custumer is treated. I like to think of myself as a gentleman, and I act accordingly (my opinion).

Stripclubs: Are for your loud, roudy, and usually rude guys, who want there drink often, and the women naked, and grinding on you like they were whores, and you there long lost lover. These clubs are set up to strip you clean of all your money as easily, as the girl does her clothes. Drugs are often close at hand, and the girls will say yes to almost anything. Respect seems to be left in the parking lot. They are kind of the one night stand of exotic dancing. Wild and free is kind of the theme. Everything is in your face, you know what to expect going in. SC's Basicly: Drugs, Loud, Easy, Unprofessional, Disrespect, and Wild.

Gentelmen's clubs: Are for your quiter, crowd. If you like talking to women and building a trust, this is the club for you. Where respect is given and received from staff, and customers alike (in therory ). Fact is you have to be more on your toes, so to speak. There are a lot more inforced rules at clubs of this nature. So the girls are smarter here, for the most part. They have to be, if they want to get paid. The tease is much more of a turn on, than getting instant gradification. You will also find the dances on stage and in the couch/table dance areas are of a more intimate nature. Feels more real to the customer, like she really likes spending time with you. That's the job. There are exceptions of course, the more trust the more chance of an actual friendship. If bounderies are respected, real friendships will blossom. I'ts human nature. For the most part it is strictly business, and money is the goal. Being subtle, is the game here. It is a lot slower, but much more rewarding. GC's Basicly: Rules, Respect, Tease, Smart, Quite, Subtle, And professional.

I am not a rich man, far from it. I do know how to have a good time at a club. For one I get dances, I go to the stage from time to time, showing an interest on the show being performed, and I tip. When at a table with a girl, I talk with her changing the subject now and then just to see how the interesting she is. I may never sit with her again, or become a regular, but will always get at least one dance from a girl who sits with me, I see it as respect for her time. Maybe thats wierd for most guys. I don't know. I do know I have become friends with many of the dancers, even after they have stopped dancing. I like to think it is because I treat all of them as human beings with respect and humility. I am not above them, they are not above me. I like clubs that are 80% Gentlemen 20% Strip. Like the Dolphin Clubs and Stars. Thx for reading.