Monday, May 3, 2010

A friend finds love...

A blog about a friend of mine and the love she has found. Found even when she was not looking for it....This is dedicated to her and a growing hope for her and her special someone to find happiness together for a very long time.



It's true,I think one of my friends has finally found true love. She has had her share of disappointments. like the rest of us some earned, some just bad judgement or to much drama. Whatever the reason (s) she had to endure those hard ships so that she would be able to recognize what she has now. FEAR is the main arch-enemy of LOVE in my opinion. Having been with my friend via text, phone, and face to face chats from the start of meeting her Mister Right. I play amature psychologist for her so that she can better clarify her thinking on the matter of the two of them being a long term couple. I listen to her woes, and her shouts of joy about him with equal interest. I am for always and forever preaching patience to her and finally she is seeing the rewards for that patience.I'm so HAPPY for her. It is just so cool. I mean the relationship started just before Valentines day, as a long distance relationship, and if you have ever been involved in one of these, you know. It can drive you insane with the need to be with that person. My friend is not used to waiting for anything she may want. Being a only child, she has pretty much got things as quickly as she made her mind up she wanted it. NO!!! Was not in her vocabulary. lol



The very first night the two of them met I receive a text saying "I think I just kissed my future Husband". Knowing how impulsive my friend gets at times, I took the news as amusing at best. It wasn't until a few weeks later that I actually met the guy. Seeing the two of them together, I could see she had fallen hard for this guy already, but I also saw he was just as smitten with her, but kind of nervous just the same. So of course I decide to see if I am reading the love connection correctly, by bring up a subject to embarrass her, if I could. I start conversing about favored sexual positions, and the transition from one to the other. example Reverse cowgirl to doggy-style. If she get embarrassed, she likes the guy a lot, but if she is just flirting she will take over this conversation and go wild with it. She blushed so hard you could actually see it in the dark. Slapping at my arm, as she calls me a brat. Saying I can't believe I'm blushing. More embarrassed about blushing than anything else. :-) Anyway, She started from very modest beginings in this relationship, and it is progressing nicely. to be cont.

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