My take on... why so insulted in being asked out?

A blog talking to guys...Get a clue she is not going to see you, and why.


Having talked with a goodly amount of strippers over the years, I have heard about all the different things that make them angry, or insulted. One such thing I hear is how some get very insulted at being asked to be seen out side of the club. My opinion is the dancer doesn't so much feel annoyed at being asked, as the fact a customer will continue to ask once the "NO" answer has been given. It is just the idea that they are now being treated like a prostitute, instead of a companion for a few hours of conversation, and cuddling. Guys remember these dancers are women first and for most. If you treat them with the respect you would treat a real date, outside of the club, you will have a much greater chance of being invited, let me say that again INVITED by the dancer to see them in a more normal circumstance.
As I see things. Dancers don't really mind the asking, once or twice by different patrons through out there night of work. It is kind of a compliment that they still got what the customer wants. As long as the customers are asking they are interested, but when they have money and just figure to have to name a price. Well that would make anyone mad. The fact these women might not really be into guys to begin with, or they are married, or have a boy/girl friend outside of the club, who they really do want to spend quality time with. Doesn't seem to phase some guys. They just don't get it. The women they are asking have minds of there own. She knows of what she does, and does not like, and the things she will not sacrifice for your pride.

I have been fortunate to be able to see some of the ladies who strip for a living outside of the club, but in each and every case, I was invited. I know the boundaries, and respect them. I will invite these ladies myself, from time to time to go hang out. Movies, shooting pool, picnics whatever. I have earned their trust, and they have mine. It takes time to build trust, not just money. Be a man, after all you are talking to woman not a thing to be bought on a whim. Okay! I'm done lol As always! Feel free to comment